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0. Discover How This Platform Works
We’re glad you’ve taken the time to explore our resources and learn more about private sperm donation. Whether you're a potential donor, recipient, or simply curious, we’re here to help guide you through the process with the most reliable and relevant information. We encourage you to take full advantage of our wiki and resources to get a comprehensive understanding of how private sperm donation can work for you. Thank you for being a part of this community, and we hope the information provided helps you on your journey.
Disclaimer: While we strive to provide accurate and up-to-date information, please note that we do not take legal responsibility for any actions taken based on the content provided on this platform. Users are encouraged to seek medical and legal advice and conduct their own research before making any decisions related to private sperm donation.
0.1 Purpose of This Platform
This platform exists to connect individuals interested in private sperm donation, providing them with a safe, reliable, and informative space to navigate the process. Our goal is to facilitate respectful and thoughtful connections between donors and recipients while ensuring privacy, discretion, and informed decision-making. Whether you’re here to find a donor, explore options as a donor, or gather important information, this platform is designed to support you every step of the way.
0.2 How It Works
Getting started with our platform is easy and straightforward. Here’s a step-by-step outline of what you can expect:
- Sign Up: Begin by creating your account, its free. You'll be asked to share your intentions—whether you're looking to donate or find a donor—along with some basic information. Once submitted, simply verify your account email to get started.
- Populate Your Profile: Once signed up, you can update your profile details. Donors and recipients can share as much or as little personal information as they feel comfortable with, or even set their profile invisible. You can update your profile information at any time.
- Search and Match: The platform allows you to search and browse through profiles that meet your criteria. For quick identification, donors are listed in blue and recipients in pink. In addition, you can filter based on preferences such as location, physical traits, lifestyle and more. Whether you’re a donor or a recipient, matching is made easier with our advanced filtering system.
- Messaging and Communication: Once you find a match, you can begin messaging. This feature helps maintain privacy while allowing you to get to know the other person without sharing personal contact details. Feel free to ask questions, exchange thoughts, and discuss details about your arrangement to see if you are on the same page.
- Meet and Plan: After some initial conversations, it’s a good idea to meet in person (or via video call for long-distance connections) before moving forward. This allows both parties to gauge comfort levels and clarify any important details in person.
- Make Arrangements: Once both parties are comfortable, you can begin discussing and finalizing the logistics of the donation. This includes deciding on timing, location, and method of insemination, as well as addressing any legal or medical concerns.
- Donation and Follow-Up: After the arrangements are made, the donation can take place. From there, you’ll proceed as planned, and it’s important to keep open communication for any follow-up needs or additional support.
0.3 Privacy and Security Features
Your privacy is one of our top priorities. This platform is designed to offer a safe and discreet space for donors and recipients to connect without compromising their identity. No real names, addresses, or personal contact information need to be made public, and users are encouraged to share only what they feel comfortable with.
All communication takes place through our secure internal messaging system, helping ensure that conversations stay private and confidential. We do not sell or share user data with third parties, and no external tracking tools are used for advertising purposes. Profiles remain anonymous by default, and every user has full control over the information they share, with whom, and when.
To protect privacy long-term, inactive accounts are automatically deleted after one year of inactivity. Messages are also automatically deleted after one year. If a user chooses to delete their account, all associated data—including messages and profile information—is permanently removed from our system.
We also take misuse seriously. Any violation of respectful use or suspicious behavior can be reported through our contact form. Our team reviews such reports and, when necessary, will investigate, warn, or permanently block users who abuse the platform.
Your safety, comfort, and trust are essential to us—and we’ve built this platform with that firmly in mind.
0.4 What Makes Us Different
Unlike many other platforms in the space, this site was built with care—not profit—as the driving force. We offer free access to all essential features so that everyone, regardless of financial background, can have an equal opportunity to connect and build their family in a way that feels right for them.
We prioritize thoughtful community building over aggressive matchmaking. You won't find paid promotions, premium visibility boosts, or pressure to upgrade. Instead, what you will find is a calm, respectful space where users take the time to connect with intention. Our goal is to support sincere, safe, and realistic connections—not fast matches at any cost.
Moderation is guided by a hands-on approach. We encourage users to report any disturbances, and we take community concerns seriously. Problematic behavior is handled quickly and thoroughly, including the possibility of removing users who misuse the platform.
Ultimately, what makes us different is the heart behind the project: it’s community-supported, donation-based, and built for people who value privacy, equality, and authentic connections. We're not trying to be the biggest platform—just the most human one.
0.5 Community Guidelines
To keep this platform a safe and supportive space for everyone, we ask all users to follow a few simple guidelines. These aren’t about control—they’re about helping each other feel respected and comfortable during what is often a deeply personal journey.
- Be Respectful and Honest: Whether you're here as a donor or a recipient, honesty is key. Be clear about your intentions and expectations from the beginning. Misleading others or giving false information will only cause frustration—and may result in removal from the platform.
- Keep Communication Kind and Constructive: Everyone here is navigating their own experience. Treat each interaction with empathy and patience. Offensive language, harassment, or pressure of any kind will not be tolerated.
- Respect Boundaries and Privacy: If someone doesn't feel comfortable sharing something, don’t push. Everyone moves at their own pace, and mutual trust should be earned, not demanded.
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Report Issues: If you come across a user who is being disrespectful, suspicious, or abusive, please let us know through the contact form. Your reports help us maintain a healthy and secure environment.
- No Commercial Use: This is a community built on goodwill. Soliciting for paid services outside of the donation process, or using the platform for anything beyond genuine donation-related connections, is not allowed. (Reasonable payment requests by donors related to the donation itself are permitted.)
0.6 FAQs (Frequently Asked Questions)
To help new users get started and feel more comfortable using the platform, here are answers to some of the most commonly asked questions:
General Platform Information
Is this platform really free?
Yes. All essential features—from browsing profiles to sending messages—are free to use. The platform runs on voluntary donations from users, which help keep it independent and privacy-focused.
Is there a minimum or maximum age requirement to use this platform?
Yes, you must be at least 18 years old to use our platform.
Do I have to verify my identity to use the platform?
No, in order to maintain user anonymity, identity verification is not required. However, you will need to confirm a valid email address during sign-up. Your email is not visible to other users.
Can I remain anonymous?
Absolutely. You are not required to share your full name, email, or personal information with other users unless you choose to. We encourage everyone to take their time and only reveal personal details when comfortable.
Can I change my profile details later?
Yes, you can update your profile information at any time through your profile settings. Account information like your username or birthday can not be changed.
How do I update my profile or account information?
You can update your profile information, profile picture, password, and email in your profile settings. Keep in mind that you need to verify your new email within 48 hours, otherwise your account will be deleted.
Can I delete my account?
You can delete your account at any time. Just click the “Delete Account” button at the bottom of your profile settings page and follow the instructions. Once deleted, all your data—including messages—will be permanently removed.
What happens if I don’t log in for a long time?
Inactive accounts are automatically deleted after one year to protect privacy and keep the platform current.
How long are messages and accounts stored?
Messages are automatically deleted after one year. If a user does not log in for over a year, their account is also removed. Users can delete their accounts at any time, and all associated data will be permanently erased.
How is my data protected?
We do not store sensitive personal information beyond what’s necessary, and accounts/messages are automatically deleted after a period of inactivity or upon request.
Safety and Reporting
Can I report someone for inappropriate behavior?
Yes. You can report any violations or inappropriate behavior via the contact form. Our team will review and take appropriate action, including blocking accounts if necessary.
What should I do if I feel uncomfortable or unsafe during the process?
Express that you are feeling uncomfortable, clear communication is key to avoid misunderstandings. However, you always have the right to say no or stop the process at any time, regardless of the situation. If your boundaries are not respected or if you feel unsafe, don't hesitate to contact emergency services for immediate assistance. Your safety is the most important priority. Additionally, do not hesitate to report abuse to local authorities to ensure further protection.
Is it safe to meet someone through this platform?
As with any online interaction, caution is advised. We encourage users to video call first and meet in public places before making any arrangements.
Compensation and Legal Considerations
Can donors request compensation or payment?
Yes, donors can request reasonable reimbursement for costs like travel, testing, and other expenses related to the donation. While the platform is designed for altruistic donations, agreed-upon payments for the donation itself are allowed. However, donors should be aware of and check the legal aspects of receiving payments in their jurisdiction.
Are there any legal implications I should consider before donating or receiving sperm?
Yes, there can be legal implications depending on your location and the terms of the donation. It's important to be aware of local laws regarding parental rights, responsibilities, and any potential legal claims that could arise from sperm donation. We recommend consulting with a legal professional to fully understand the implications before proceeding with any donation or receipt of sperm.
Matching and Search
Can I search for donors or recipients based on specific criteria?
Yes, our advanced search filters allow you to search based on a wide range of criteria. Additionally, your most recent search will be saved, so you don’t have to set up your filters every time.
How is my location used for matching?
Your location is determined using latitude and longitude coordinates taken from the place you select using the address autocomplete during sign-up or profile updates. These coordinates—not the address name—are used for matchmaking. Please make sure the marker on the map reflects your intended location, as it shows the exact point used for others to find you.
Can I use the platform to find a donor if I am not ready for insemination yet?
Yes, many recipients begin searching for a donor ahead of time to avoid rushing the insemination process. You can search for a donor before you're ready, but it's important to communicate this clearly with potential donors so they understand your timeline.
Can I make multiple donations on this platform?
Yes, you can make donations to multiple recipients on this platform.
Can I remain anonymous if I choose to donate to the platform?
While online payments are never completely anonymous, your donation payment is not linked to your user account, ensuring that your identity remains protected.
Can I use the platform if I’m using a clinic for insemination?
Yes, some users choose to meet donors here and then complete the process with medical professionals.
Account Verification
I didn’t receive my email verification—what should I do?
Please check your spam or junk folder. If the email is not there, try re-creating your account or contact support through the contact form. Please note that if your email is not verified within 48 hours, your account will be automatically deleted.
Platform Support and Assistance
Can I get help from the platform’s team during the matching or donation process?
No, the platform serves as a space for connecting donors and recipients. We provide the tools and resources to facilitate your process, but the platform's team does not get involved in the matching or donation process itself. It's important that both parties independently manage the interactions and decisions regarding donations.